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Being
in a relationship shouldn’t be painful. Whether couples are
in committed relationships, engaged or married, keeping the
spark of love alive and encouraging it to flourish sometimes
requires a little outside help. We specialize in communication
issues and help you to speak your partner’s love language
and reopen the channels of communication that often become
blocked by real life living in an uncertain world.
Whether you are coping with a
communication gap, life transition, family communication or
getting reacquainted as an empty nester, our professionals can
help you rekindle the loving relationship with the person you
first fell in love with and successfully negotiate and master
the stages of relationship development that we all experience.
Our
counseling is based on the work of Michele Wiener-Davis, LCSW,
Dr. Judith Wallerstein, Dr. Gary Chapman and David and Claudia
Arp. All are experts in marriage and family life and have
published numerous books on the subject of healthy
relationships.
All
successful intimate relationships experience some common
characteristics:
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Emotional
separation from family of origin – establishing
ourselves as independent adults |
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Building
relationships based on mutual respect, trust and
healthy boundaries |
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Creating
a pleasurable physical relationship and protecting it
from incursions by workplace and family |
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Embracing
the tasks of parenthood and adjusting to the change in
the family that having children creates while
maintaining the couple’s privacy |
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Creating
a sense of unity in confronting the life transitions
and crises that we all experience and maintaining the
strength of the marital bonds even in adverse
situations such as job loss, financial difficulties
and death of loved ones |
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Keeping
a sense of humor – despite the stress, being able to
share laughter and humor. It helps to keep the rest of
life in perspective |
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Nurturing
and comforting each other, allowing each partner to
lean on the other during difficult times and offering
continued support and encouragement |
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Keeping
love alive over a long time. |
If
these are your relationship goals or you are experiencing a
transition that is making your relationship less than you want
it to be, we can offer hope, support and proven strategies
that help you change your lives for the better. Please call
us. We can help you.
Marriage Magazine |